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Bridal Diaries : The Struggle

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In less than two months from now I will MARRY my best friend and the man who owns my heart. I will marry the one I will laugh with, dream with and love forever.

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On top of the World !

I still can’t believe that I am going to get married to the love of my life in just 2 months. Everything seems like a Fairytale ! I never thought my Parents would agree for our relationship. We’ve come a looong way and I just can’t wait to share the rest of my life with him and my happiness with you. 😀

The Struggle :

Since ours is an Inter Faith marriage, I always thought convincing my parents would be the MOST difficult thing ever. I was wrong ! It was just the start. My Father is very close to his Elder brother, my Uncle, who is extremely against this marriage. He in fact said that He would not attend my Wedding or Anything related to it and neither would he let anyone from his family do that. I felt really bad the day my cousin told me that her father, my Uncle has asked her to be around ME as I can influence her to do such dirty things. Loving someone is dirty ? Or loving someone who is of different religion makes it dirty ? Fighting with the WORLD is easy but how do you fight with your own family ?

My Mum’s side also created a BIG Scene but eventually they agreed to attend my wedding. Let’s not forget the so-called SOCIETY ! They didn’t spare us either. Their ongoing taunts and rumors were hilarious. The recent one I heard, ‘I had Eloped with the guy for 6 months and my parents got me back from somewhere. That is why they’ve agreed to get us married.’ Can you believe it ? I honestly don’t care what people say but I was worried about my parents. I didn’t want all this to change their decision. I felt bad for them. I was SCARED. I didn’t wanted to go through the entire ‘No ! You can’t marry Him’ part again.

I am so glad that didn’t happen. They are the most AMAZING Parents EVER !! I am happy they didn’t care about the society. They thought about ME ! 🙂 I love them so much more for this. I don’t understand why people can’t see others happy. I don’t understand why a difference in Faith can be the biggest problem in anyone’s life. I don’t understand why this SOCIETY is so concerned about my Life. They never paid for my school / college or my meal yet they act like I am nothing without them. I would never be a part of a SOCIETY like this. I am sorry if I hurt anyone’s sentiments. It’s just that I get very angry when I think of everything that’s happened and happening.

The Good Part :

All the above mentioned things kept me away from being a Happy Bride and Shopping was the last thing in my list, until today. Today, I realized that it’s just two months left from the biggest day in my life and I can’t wait for people to be happy for me. Today is from when I intend to be a Happy Bride.

I’ve started my shopping and can’t wait to show you my Wedding Lehenga. 😀

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10 comments

  1. Congrats Hina & Aalhad.. I have seen the tensions my little bro like friend was in. But i am happy that you both did not give up (especially you Hina coz i know how much struggle it means at your side) & finally u guys are going to be one. God Bless you both… mwah.. God bless your parents too.. coz they are an example of proving that for parents their children’s happiness is a prime importance rather than fulfilling the stupid “Society”s selfish demands. Love, love & live long.. Cheers!

  2. Thank u for being sooo strong babe..everything will be alright ..just enjoy ur shopping ..waiting to spend my entire life with u soon

  3. Just enjoy your wedding planning and get excited for the good things coming your way, forget about people who dont matter…People whose happiness doesnt matter to you why should they matter to you? Many congratulations to you!

  4. God bless you and your family! Just forget what others have to say and enjoy your life…just be the way you want it to be and all will be well 😀

  5. Would love to see your wedding shopping :)…Enjoy this time and I’m sure everything will ork out just fine. U sure will be one gorgeous bride 🙂

  6. That’s wonderful to know, Hina. I know how you feel. I felt exactly the same last year.
    The not-so-good thing about my wedding story is that everyone including all my relatives seemed to understand and agree based on “times have changed… These things happen everywhere” philosophy. Then suddenly it all changed and as we got close to the wedding they just completely flipped their positions. It was horrible… But well, it all worked out finally and the only thing that really mattered were my family… And my husband and me. We are happy. That’s good enough in the end. 🙂

    I’m glad things are going good now.. It’s always our attitude that matters. You have a great one. All the very best! <3

  7. I am so glad, that things worked out in your favor eventually..and seriously its the irony of life..when ur own loved ones become the biggest haters of your happiness..but i think all this takes time for people to understand,, so just give this sometime..and I am sure everyone wud be sooo happy once you are married..and dont let anything come inbetween your happy bride phase..u truly deserve it :)) god bless!!

    • Thank you sooo much Jas.. Trust me, that’s the most difficult part ever.. Its been almost an year now. Anyways, I have stopped thinking about it. Thank you again 🙂

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