In less than two months from now I will MARRY my best friend and the man who owns my heart. I will marry the one I will laugh with, dream with and love forever.
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I still can’t believe that I am going to get married to the love of my life in just 2 months. Everything seems like a Fairytale ! I never thought my Parents would agree for our relationship. We’ve come a looong way and I just can’t wait to share the rest of my life with him and my happiness with you. 😀
The Struggle :
Since ours is an Inter Faith marriage, I always thought convincing my parents would be the MOST difficult thing ever. I was wrong ! It was just the start. My Father is very close to his Elder brother, my Uncle, who is extremely against this marriage. He in fact said that He would not attend my Wedding or Anything related to it and neither would he let anyone from his family do that. I felt really bad the day my cousin told me that her father, my Uncle has asked her to be around ME as I can influence her to do such dirty things. Loving someone is dirty ? Or loving someone who is of different religion makes it dirty ? Fighting with the WORLD is easy but how do you fight with your own family ?
My Mum’s side also created a BIG Scene but eventually they agreed to attend my wedding. Let’s not forget the so-called SOCIETY ! They didn’t spare us either. Their ongoing taunts and rumors were hilarious. The recent one I heard, ‘I had Eloped with the guy for 6 months and my parents got me back from somewhere. That is why they’ve agreed to get us married.’ Can you believe it ? I honestly don’t care what people say but I was worried about my parents. I didn’t want all this to change their decision. I felt bad for them. I was SCARED. I didn’t wanted to go through the entire ‘No ! You can’t marry Him’ part again.
I am so glad that didn’t happen. They are the most AMAZING Parents EVER !! I am happy they didn’t care about the society. They thought about ME ! 🙂 I love them so much more for this. I don’t understand why people can’t see others happy. I don’t understand why a difference in Faith can be the biggest problem in anyone’s life. I don’t understand why this SOCIETY is so concerned about my Life. They never paid for my school / college or my meal yet they act like I am nothing without them. I would never be a part of a SOCIETY like this. I am sorry if I hurt anyone’s sentiments. It’s just that I get very angry when I think of everything that’s happened and happening.
The Good Part :
All the above mentioned things kept me away from being a Happy Bride and Shopping was the last thing in my list, until today. Today, I realized that it’s just two months left from the biggest day in my life and I can’t wait for people to be happy for me. Today is from when I intend to be a Happy Bride.
I’ve started my shopping and can’t wait to show you my Wedding Lehenga. 😀